{"id":184,"date":"2008-10-05T19:10:27","date_gmt":"2008-10-05T17:10:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quidelombre.unblog.fr\/2008\/10\/05\/loubli-comme-un-devoir\/"},"modified":"2008-10-05T19:10:27","modified_gmt":"2008-10-05T17:10:27","slug":"loubli-comme-un-devoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quidelombre.fr\/?p=184","title":{"rendered":"L’oubli comme un devoir !"},"content":{"rendered":"

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L’oubli est-il un acte libre ?<\/b><\/p>\n

L’h\u00e9ro\u00efne de Nathalie Rheims, l’amoureuse morte \u00e9crit qu’il est trop tard, que le temps a bascul\u00e9<\/font>,\u00a0 \u00ab\u00a0tour \u00e0 tour magicien et fossoyeur\u00a0\u00bb. Et si hier sur le pont des ruptures l’amour une fois de plus a perdu, il restera des instants uniques, pr\u00e9cieux, une histoire au pass\u00e9 et si pr\u00e9sente encore.<\/p>\n

Deux \u00eatres ont tourn\u00e9 la page, non pas de leur rencontre, mais de leur union, mais pourront-ils jamais la d\u00e9chirer ?<\/p>\n

Car ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9, sera pour l’\u00e9ternit\u00e9, fig\u00e9 dans son existence pass\u00e9e, rien ne s’efface vraiment, tout perdure d’une fa\u00e7on ou d’une autre. Si l’effacement n’est pas possible, plut\u00f4t que manifestation, ne faut-il pas penser l’oubli comme condition de la libert\u00e9 ?<\/b><\/p>\n

Le pass\u00e9 doit \u00eatre d\u00e9pass\u00e9, pour nous (pour-soi) et par nous, si rien ne s’efface jamais tout peut s’oublier pour laisser place \u00e0 demain. Mais le devoir de m\u00e9moire est aussi la dignit\u00e9 d’une conscience libre, tourn\u00e9e vers demain. Ainsi comme l’amoureuse morte nous ne nous perdrons pas dans le souvenir de l’amour qui emmure au-del\u00e0 de la mort<\/i> jusqu’\u00e0 la fin des temps, sans oublier nous nous pardonnerons, non pas pour nous montrer libres, mais pour nous montrer dignes<\/p>\n

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Nous l’avons vu, tout demeure dans l’\u00e9ternit\u00e9 fig\u00e9e de ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9. Si nous perdons le souvenir, nous nous perdons aussi.<\/p>\n

Pour l’amoureuse morte lorsque ses \u00ab\u00a0yeux clos \u00e0 jamais ne seront que poussi\u00e8re\u00a0\u00bb, ils emporteront dans l’au-del\u00e0 les plus beaux jours avec l’autre.<\/p>\n

La m\u00e9moire ne nous appartient pas, elle nous colle \u00e0 la peau, elle est le reflet tremblant de notre histoire. Mais l’oubli, lui, est notre gloire quand il lib\u00e8re l’espoir. Se montrer libre c’est affronter le pr\u00e9sent, lib\u00e9r\u00e9 du pass\u00e9.<\/p>\n

L’ultime d\u00e9livrance ne vient pas de la mort<\/font><\/i>, mais de la volont\u00e9 d’oublier, de ne plus donner d’importance \u00e0 ce qui nous manque tant.<\/p>\n

L’unique d\u00e9livrance vraie passe par l’oubli<\/i>, non pas simplement acte de libert\u00e9, mais comme sa condition m\u00eame !<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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